Expat Advice: Relationships in Balkbrug, Netherlands

What is the name of the city or town that you are reporting on?

Balkbrug

What is your current status? Are you single, dating, in a long-term relationship, married or divorced?

I am living (with), soon to be married to a Dutchman.

What is it like in your country of residence for someone with your relationship status (married/divorced/dating)? If you're single, how do you meet other people? Do English-speaking people tend to gravitate to certain parts of your city?

I don't know very many English-speaking people where I live. Most can understand a little English, but most cannot speak it. I rely on my Dutch partner to communicate for me. It is frustrating to say the least. But, I will be starting a Dutch emmersion program soon so I can speak the language.

If you do not have children, do you generally spend your social time with other expat couples? If not, what else do you like to do as a couple?

My partner has children which we see every second weekend. We socialize with many different types of people. Some are single, some married. We spend alot of time together and are extremely selfish about our own quality time... together.

If you are married or in a relationship with a person of another nationality, how has this experience enriched you as a person. What kind of challenges do you face?

Well... I'm almost married to him (does that count?) Our, (or my) biggest challenge is the language barrier. Not speaking the language of the people where I live puts me at a total disadvantage. I totally rely on my dutch partner to translate everything. Even something as simple as grocery shopping becomes a huge deal if you can't read lables or understand the cashier. But.. it is all worth it when you need to be with your soultwin. I certainly wouldn't change my situation for the world. So... I will learn the language and find my independance again.

What would be the best advice you could give someone with your relationship status that lives in your country of residence? Any other thoughts?

Follow your heart... do what makes you happy... keep an open mind and trust your gut. Life is wonderful! It's all in your perception!