Expat Advice: Culture Shock in Mumbai, India
What is the name of the city or town that you are reporting on?
Did you receive any cross-cultural training for your move abroad? If yes, was it before or after the move?
No I did not.
Moving to India Soon?
If they speak another language in your new country, do you speak the language? If yes, did you learn the language before you moved or while abroad? If no, are you planning to learn the language?
I speak one that some people speak, but not Hindi. I am planning on learning basic Hindi, but may not have time.
Were you worried or concerned about culture shock before you moved abroad?
No, but I am in extreme culture shock now.
How significant was the culture shock you experienced when you moved abroad?
Pretty bad. I cry a lot and wonder what I got myself into. I am opening up an office for my company in Mumbai. I'm 27, and feel very much out of place even though my parents were born in India and I have some family there.
Expats often talk about going through the "stages of culture shock." Examples include the honeymoon phase, the irritation-to-anger stage, the rejection of the culture stage, and the cultural adjustment phase. Do you feel like you went through these or any other stages as you settled into the new culture?
No. Never had the honeymoon phase, and I'm in the anger stage now.
What, if any, were some of the changes you noticed in yourself that might have been caused by culture shock? These might include things such as anger, depression, anxiety, increased eating or drinking, frustration, homesickness, etc.
homesickness....have never experienced that. Eat and drink much less. Am more angry and frustrated....but India is a pretty frustrating place for Westerners.
What are some things you appreciate most about the new culture?
how cheap it is?
What are the most challenging aspects of the new culture?
how cheap it is, lack of respect for others, extreme inefficiencies, lack of cleanliness
Did you "commit" any embarrassing or humorous cultural blunders? If you did and you'd like to share them, please do tell!
Do you have any advice or thoughts about culture shock you would like to share?
It's rough. Much easier to come to a country with a significant other, so you can share the highs and lows together. Wish I did that. Think long and hard before you move somewhere. I'm sure in the end it will be a growing experience, but not so happy about it now.
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