vtgreentea
5/25/2014 18:53 EST
I am really struggling with some tings here where I live and messaged him daily about it. No reply from him since may of 2014.
He is to come, help me get a passport, help me to pack, and i go with him back to live with him and start a new life with him. He told me he wants us together so we can help each other and take care of each other. I am very stressed because I do not know if he realizes my pell grants and subsidized student loans reached their limit, which means I cannot afford to lv
live in the apartment I am in here. I might not be able to stay in this apartment the whole time while I wait for him to arrive. And I get nervous fearing maybe he will not come at all. Because I have been ditched by men in th past. Some really show up, usually they are jerks,.. But He i can trust to not be a jerk, i only need him to really show up..
AFTER we made the plans for me to go with him this summer to his country, was when I found out about the financial aid for college. I had to withdraw from the summer college classes I was enrolled in. I have only 4 more classes to get a Bachelor of Arts Degree in Professional Studies, with concentration in Psychology. i will have to find a different college to finish the degree after I get to Argentina. The college refund checks were pretty much ehlping me to keep this apartment.
I do not know castillano. My boyfreind promised to put me into a spanish class after I get there. I am excited about a life with him. He is so wonderful !!
He always talks positive to me.
I have never been able to make teh double Rs in my life. I hope I can learn how. Is there an easy way to learn how..
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TomP
5/26/2014 07:29 EST
vtgreentea,
As an American having lived in Argentina for five years and somewhat knowing its men, uh, how can I say this gently: Are you out of your mind!!!
How can you entertain going to a foreign country where you do not speak the language and where you have no income? And to quit college just short of a degree that might be work worthy in the USA is nuts.
Get a grip. If he is so terrific have him come visit you and work while he's in the US and contribute to the household.
I am sorry but it sounds like you bought hook line and sinker into a Harlequin Romance Novel.
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vtgreentea
5/26/2014 08:28 EST
He and I made plans and agreed for me to go to Argentina, AFTER that was wehn my college told me that my subsidized student loans and pell grants were almost to their limit, and i do not have enough financial aid left to pay for 2 classes. BUt I have 4 left. I have no idea of how to pay for them, I am disabled. There is no way for me to go to college any more now. Do you understand taht part? I would have to get a co-signer for a loan and I do not know anyone to do that for me.
I am a domestic violence survivor.
My exhusband helped ruin my credit, so i cannot simply get a necessary straight loan by myself.
When I was 3 I survived coma and equine encephalitis.
I am still waiting for HIM to come here for me, to message me sometime soon, and tell me if he is ok, and if he still plans on coming here for me.
There is no way right now for me to finish and get the degree ... DO YOU GOT THAT PART... the financial aid reached its LIMIT>
I also did not mentoin that he had a car accident, lost part of a liimb, is learning to walk with an artificial leg, and owns a business.
I am worried that he may be in the hospital...
But he may be working hard trying to get prepared for the trip to come to me while running the business and being too tired, or busy to message. he needs rest too. he has 2 businesses he told me.
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Nelmi
5/26/2014 09:31 EST
Hi Vtgreentea,
I am sorry to hear about all the problems that you have but in fairness, what help are you expecting from people on this forum?
Kind regards
Nelieta
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TomP
5/26/2014 10:56 EST
Candidly, I don't think you are looking for anything but support for what you are doing.
I wish you the best of luck in finding happiness in Argentina or the US or both.
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vtgreentea
5/27/2014 15:35 EST
If I do not hear from my boyfriend, how do I find out if he is in the hsopital or if he is deceased. This is highly emotinally charged for me. I already went through waiting for him to go through lung surgery. He made it, thank God. But I am having to wait for him to be healed enough from the accident he was in for him to come here to take me back to Argentina.
I am not sure what you mean by your post Tom P.
Presently I do not know if he is alive, or in the hospital. I began writing on this site to find out, maybe there are ways for me to get thre to help him wihtout having to wait for him to come to bring me back. I am NOT asking for money from anyone. I am not asking for "support" in that way. I was just trying to talk to people who are already in Argentina.
My boyfreind is a former judo and wrestling champion who is having a very hard time dealing with thinking he might never fight again. There is alot going on here. .. I htink I found a place to be able to stay whiel i wait for him. I do not have his mail address or phone number, I have his full name and date of birth. We did all of our talking online, using voice mesages and emails and facebook to talk. I am hoping that I can find out whether he is ok or not. I am not asking anyone here to do a thing, I am simply here talking about what is going on. What is sick is that some people do not see the fact taht i break down crying even thinking of this man being hurt yet have the gaul to say neggative things about him. He could be dead rom a blood clot going from his amputated leg to his heart for all i know, I have been very upset.
I simply am here trying to talk with others who are in Argentina becasue that is where i will go when he comes for me, or I find out if he is even ok. If he cannot travel, then I have to figure out how to get there on my own ... but I AM NOT ASKING FOR HELP TO GET THERE OR FOR MONEY...
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leti89
5/27/2014 19:38 EST
This sounds like a Troll, getting a degree from the States and unable to write proper grammar.
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vtgreentea
5/29/2014 18:47 EST
I have had equine encephalitis and coma, as well as many seizures. I am not in a class, and my perfection of typing is not required on this site. I am highly stressed and having crying spells due to i do not know if my boyfreind is even alive, and you come in here being accusing like that. I do not appreciate that.
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vtgreentea
5/29/2014 18:50 EST
I am not asking for money, I do not know what you mean by a troll, I am not asking for anything at all. I am hoping to find out if my boyfreind is alive ! ! ! Or in the hospital!!! but not asking anyone here to do a damned thing. ! ... So I would appreciate it if people get off their high horse and simply act human. How would YOU feel if you did not know if your significant other was in the hospital or even alive? He NEVER has gone without saying anythign to me this long. ... And I joined this site to try to talk wtih others who have moved to Argentina or are from there.
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vtgreentea
5/29/2014 18:54 EST
And he will not move to the US... he has an 11 year old daughter there. And told me he has 2 businesses and many other responsibilities. He also told me about being in a car wreck and injuries he is healing from. he has NOT asked me for money, I also have not asked him for money. We are in love. and I cannot belive how cold people are when you come into a place like this upset and saying you do not know if your boyfreind is even alive. I hope that everyone in here who had a cold response to me ends up feeling the same thing I do... God can make that happen. I hope you have to worry and cry and sweat over if someone you care about is ok.... someone who lives far away.
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vtgreentea
5/30/2014 17:04 EST
Today I finally heard from him. He said he had been in the hospital and had lung surgery due to an infection from the injuries resultant of the accident.
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vtgreentea
6/4/2014 08:28 EST
I heard from him on Friday, may 30, but have not heard from him since. If he ends up in the hospital or something really goes wrong and he passes away... I have no idea of how I will know.... This is so stressful.
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vtgreentea
6/6/2014 12:20 EST
I still have not heard from him. Is there a way that I can get hold of his family if i have his name and date of birth, to have him checked on . I do nto haev their phone number. Or his, he said it is too expensiv for me to call him but i paid the little extra to be able to call argentina unlimited for this month. If I contact the police there would they check on a person , if you only have their email or profile links... and name and full name date of birth>?
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vtgreentea
6/11/2014 09:17 EST
he did message me saying he will see me soon. but something is not the same, he is not going into faacebook, and went into a diff site he knows i had no account in. and that is the place he messaged me back in AFTE i made an account in that place to see what he said. , and find out if he was ok.
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vtgreentea
6/12/2014 10:56 EST
he told me he is planning to send me a plane ticket. and that he is not well, that his lungs are bad , that he is taking antibiotics, and that he does not know if he will be able to get well
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vtgreentea
6/13/2014 10:38 EST
I have no passport yet, he was going to help me to get one when he came to get me.I have to wait and see if a plane ticket actually appears now. And find out how to get the passport if one does. I am nervous about going alone and we have not seen each other yet .... he never went into a camera, never spoke on the phone. and only left voice messages online for me and me for him. I was waiting for him to come to get me like he promised. yet if he is really that ill as he says he is , i want to be there to help him. Now the big question is, will a plane ticket appear or not....~~ one of my friends was worried this was something about human trafficking. Because he never went into a camera. Why would someone pay for the ticket to get me that fa away, to go through all that expense just to sell me for the average price of ninety dollars. i do not consider myself that much of a commodity.
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vtgreentea
6/13/2014 10:44 EST
i am not looking for a thing from anyone in this forum, i just hoped someone would be human enough to possibly ... if i am not heard from again in here..... maybe if you r in argentina or someplace and by some chance run into me,... would be a decent person and help guide me to some1 who would help me if i am in trouble. I am in Vermont now. Do not know if a ticket will show up. and am nervous about traveling alone.
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