samny100
1/9/2010 05:51 EST
When I arrived the most difficult part was the language barrier! I was quite embarrassed to try out my limited arabic! I have learnt however that unlike other Western countries, my attempts at arabic were welcomed and encouraged, yes, I was teased! but in a positive way - rather like a child!. So my advice is to try!
The culture shock was initially not too bad. My experience is that people are generally fairly tolerant of westerners cultural gaffs, so long as you take the time to learn the major taboos - and as a women - DRESS APPROPRIATELY unless u want negative attention. OK, its not what us western women are used to, but believe me, it makes life easier for you. However the perception of women in general does grind on me ALOT. I sometimes feel like a second class citizen - well actually - all the time. My husband is expected to ansa for me at all times! I am either hassled or ignored! there does not seem to be a happy medium. Just try to let this wash over u.
The biggest piece of advice I could give is really to take a deep breath, and accept. We cant change the world overnite, if u come here, then u need to be prepared for a slower, less efficient, frustrating, sexist experience. However, if u already accept this, research research research, and come with an open mind. Learn the language before u come. This can only help, not only with communication, but with UNDERSTANDING what people are saying about u!!! trust me, THAT makes a big difference.
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