JDM1989
7/7/2014 19:11 EST
I have been married for 3 monthes. I went to Egypt to be married. As soon as i got back to US my husband has did a 360 with his personality. He use to be loving and attentive..now he is unloving and distant..He even has threatened if he sees me in person he will kill me..I have not made friends with men or went out with anyone since i been home.And i wouldnt do this because i love him and i take my marriage vows seriously. He is very controlling and calls me ames..constantly..everyone tells me to divorce him quickly cause its this bad..He has threatened me so much about death and or divorcing me..i just took away all my passcodes from him..he says untl he divorces me that i shouldnt go out and go anywhere cause i am still his wife..but see thats ridiculous..i went to beach this weekend with my son and this is normal in US..i know this is a long story and it sounds kind of jumbled but i need to understand what Egyptians consider adultery cause he said telling other people about our problems is adultery or not obeying him is adultery..is this true i need to know..
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melissa1984
7/7/2014 20:03 EST
Have you read the posts on line about Egyptian men in relationship with American women? So let me get this straight, did you have an ORFI document drawn up. If so it means nothing. Did you have a legal wedding at the embassy and, if so you need to get a divorce. I am assuming most of this relationship has been on-line? Basically, whatever you have or don't have is not based on any kind of reality. But make no mistake if this guy has a chance to hurt you he will and abusing or threatening someone you love, is not love at all but us control. Go to therapy, get some help, never go back to Egypt and if you cannot protect yourself at least take care of your child. No more contact is a good policy.
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JDM1989
7/7/2014 20:15 EST
no my marriage was legally done through embassy..yes i met him online but never did i ever think he would turn like this..i was even in Egypt for 40 days after i was married and he never acted like this..its as soon as i got back to US that he started acting crazy..but thank you for your reply and my intent was to stay married forever but really not like this..
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melissa1984
7/8/2014 02:58 EST
I am so sorry you went through this but also glad you are back in the USA. Women are property of their husbands in Egypt and you can only know that it would have gotten worse and worse and you'd have had few options while in Egypt. What age was this guy? Believe me when I say These guys have a PHD in flattery and kindness UNTIL YOU MARRY AND THEN YOU BECOmE A POSSESSION BY LAW and violence is not far away, Where in Egypt is this guy?
Someday, you will God this thing did not last and that you took care of you. He never would have.
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emadelbably
7/13/2014 02:55 EST
hi, my name is Emad and i'm Egyptian muslim man from Egypt. I saw your message and have to advice you to leave this man as he was cheating you to go with you to the US and after you took him there he starts 360 in his way for you. my advice for all women , please be careful when you know a man, your fingers aren't the same so are ppl , so make tests for men and discover if he already love you or he needs something from you
again this man don't love you, my advice to leave him as soon as you can and use your intelligence in that . i saw a comment talk about Egyptian men, ya Egyptian men want to leave here so he can do anything for get outside of Egypt, but not all Egyptian men are bad, there still some good ppl as all the world have good and bad ppl
if you need any advice you are most welcome
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melissa1984
7/13/2014 10:20 EST
Is your husband in Egypt or America? I assume Egypt? If so his threats are idle. If he is in the US get a restraining order. He will never make it to the USA, especially with a legal
matter hanging onto his passport. Take care of YOU.
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Dspr8wf
12/27/2016 18:35 EST
Hello Emad, I have a question. I will be moving to egypt in a couple of months to reunite with my family. But recently i found out that my husband is having an affair and they plan to marry in Egypt. My question is that are they allowed to do it because they are not muslim? He has been lying to me that its not true and FYI we are still married here in the US.
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wafa
12/27/2016 22:38 EST
I'll make it short and sweet and to the point -
If there is a plan that you and your husband move to Egypt and there is a potential that he marry an Egyptian woman there then I wouldn't personally be making the move and I'd spend my time starting asap ensuring EVERYTHING as in ALL ASSETS you have are KEPT in the USA in YOUR NAME ONLY. I'd also NOT be taking or allowing him to take any children you have to Egypt.
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Dspr8wf
1/2/2017 11:20 EST
They are not married yet. Please consider that its my family I am talking about and theres a lot of conflicts to just decide leaving him. Its not something that you make a decision overnight, not in 1 day, a week or even a month. His company have my name and my kids on the contract. I cant just say Im not going.. any way I have an answer to one of the member here..
Thank you
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