When you moved to Hong Kong, what was the most difficult part of settling in there?

Suddenly being considered only in relation to my husband - I became the "member's lady" at the Jockey Club, the "dependent spouse" at the health centre and I was addressed by my marred name only, despite keeping my maiden name. It was very frustrating and humiliating.

How much difficulty did you have with culture shock in Hong Kong?

Not much, but I take a broad view - where other people see difference I search for connection. I married into a very traditional Chinese family so there was much to learn.

What would be the best, single piece of advice you'd give to an expat (or soon to be expat) in Hong Kong? If you are considering a move, do your research - SCMP online for Hong Kong news and issues is a good start, along with questions posted here. If you are already here, embrace the diferences and look for the connections - it I hear one more comment about Chinese "face" I'll scream; we all have "face", pride, whatever; we al want to be treated with respect and a little kindness. remember that in all your dealings and you wont go far wrong!

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Thanks, Gillian! Very insightful!

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