i am an american citizen, caucasian, 2nd generation, all of my grandparents emigrated from europe in the 1920,s, recently i have hit a huge financial, and personal "wall", which involves my african- american fiancee, common- law wife, her family, and my caucasian relatives, it centers around my mother's estate. it now is becoming clear to me that the whole bunch of them, both families, are only intent on defrauding me. i am about to give up on them all, but i wish to apply to adopt all of the children involved, my nephew and niece, her (fiancee's) son by another man, and my fiancee's two nieces, as their mother is now in jail here, and the father is having trouble raising them alone, and working full time. since i have been technically "supporting" all of the parents, who now are turning their backs on me during this estate mess, it seems to make sense, maybe it will force all of the parents to wake up and see that i am not going to let them push me around anymore. i am living off of a government pension now, of around $1,000 U.S. monthly, and, although many of the adult males in my family were in the U.S military, (infantry and air force), as the oldest son, i was not allowed to enlist. and now, since my parents are both decd., i have to forge on as the head of several families, with no co-operation from either. i want to explore the option of getting employment on a U.S. military post or garrison overseas, i understand that africa contains a few of these, but most importantly, i need a stable situation in which to raise these children, wherever in the world that might be, as the country of my birth, (U.S.) is not providing that, i need a good attorney, at least, who has dealt with issues like these, emigration, combined with adoption and estate matters. andrew j. ginter, ithaca. n.y., U.S.

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Hi Andrew!
I don`t know yet any lawyer who could help you, but I`m looking. What I don't understand about ur situation is, Are u in Kenya or in the US? Are the persons you mentioned here or in the US. Do you intend to live in Kenya or have Kenyan citizenship?And why Kenya of all places?
How is a person who wasn`t officially married to you able to lay any claim on your property? why do you think u need to adopt those children?
Perhaps I`m too inquisitive and too straight forward. But from your letter It is my impression u may be a target of manipulation.
Agnieszka

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hi. it is a confusing situation. i am in the US now. i am white, my girlfriend is african- american. my family here in the US are all racists, as bad as any you may have encountered in SAR, etc, in this country, the racism is kept hidden, white people here want the rest of the world to think that they are all liberals, that we got done with racism when slavery was abolished here, not true, the racism here is just expressed in different ways. and the whites here also like to keep the notion that they are in the majority, so the media, etc, continues to try to keep that false notion alive. but the white families still "in power" here, who are now sliding in popularity since mr. obama was elected president, now try to cling on to any shred of property, entitlement, money,etc., they can steal. in my family, my sister and some lawyers stole everything i had provided for my mother, my fiancee and i, shortly after mother's death. this probably was because of my african- american fiancee. our mom was not racist or hate- filled herself, she was a kind, loving woman, but now, my sister has used her death as an opportunity to steal everything, which left my fiancee and i in a very bad financial spot. my last "post" expressed some anger at my fiancee's apparent lack of maturity and responsibility, and that of her sister and her family, the true fact is that, while i was able to shield her family from racist persecution here, by handing out money to the police, the courts, etc., to keep them all from getting persecuted and jailed, when the money ran out, the persecution continued. so i am just so sickened by the whole mess that i say things i don't mean. i am not even sure that things would improve if we managed to get out of the states and into africa. if i could even get , say, all of the people i would like to take out of the country together, get us all visas, we are still so poor financially, that we would end up as indigents, possibly, wherever we went, unless the estate mess can be resolved and kenya is just a random african country that i thought might be a good place to relocate, but i hear that there is a lot of fighting going on there now, but, never having been there, i don't know much about the country, i believe that the khofi annan institute is located in kenya, i have a brother who was a "peacekeeper" with the U.N. in egypt, in the 1980's, he trained with the U.S. military, i believe that the annan institute trains peacekeepers. kenya sounds increasingly dangerous to foriegners, i keep hearing.

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Hi Andrew, thanks for an extensive explaination of the situation. I'd like our conversation to continue via e mail, if you don't mind. Here is my address: agnieszka.thingithu@yahoo.com
Agnieszka

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My apologies for being abrupt but if you're post is to ask for money to move you all to Africa, I think you're in the wrong forum. My 2 cents.

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not at all. the estate of my mother is going into probate, she was a fairly prosperous woman, i have been fighting my sister, and other family members to get back control of her assets. the reason i am seeking to emigrate is that i now feel threatened by other family members of mine, who very probably have been conspiring to murder my fiancee and i. i also receive a federal check of roughly $1,000 U.S. per month, and if crimes can be proved on the part of my family members, the U.S. government has a program that financially compensates crime victims.

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All right then , without beating about the bush . My answer and an advice to you is : THINK TWICE, THEN THINK THRICE, IF YOU STILL COME TO THE SAME CONCLUSION, SEE PROFESSIONAL HELP. This goes for all u have mentioned. Sorry but you don`t know much about Africa or Kenya for that matter. Your problem is not racial but social , and coming to Africa where none of you will be @ home is making it worse. The money you mentioned isn`t what you can comfortably live on (and with the dependants). When you are a white person in Kenya you must live @ certain level . Sorry but this is so. And there is also something like the reverse racism ( perhaps u know about it). I`ve lived here for the 25 years and still part of the time I live what I can only describe as living behind my husband`s back. U can`t change ur colour of the skin and this is the first thing people notice.As we all know blood is thicker than water. Again if both of the families yours and hers give you grief then you really should think twice. How long are you going to live in alienation. We all need families, networks . No man( or woman) is an island .
All the best to you
Agnieszka

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cant he live in liberia for 1,000 a month

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Kenya and Liberia are 2 different countries , a whole continent across from each other

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Agata! Just ran across your post and found it interesting because I am living in Warsaw at the moment.

It is great that you are in Kenya and available to provide assistance!

Be well,

Raquel

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Hello,
I read your posts and wonder why in the world would you stay there, assume head of family, try to adopt all these people when you fear for your life. If your mother's estate is so large, why not leave, claim your stake and stay in US, your home country. Why would you post so much online? Surely, if what you say is true, you would know that they will step up their assult. Also, what do you think will happen once you get your inheritance? Whay are your siblings also against you??? So many questions, no answers. Something is not connecting.

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