KLepo
11/26/2008 15:12 EST
1. most expats can easily afford to be completely cut off from the local environment, own cook, own cleaning lady, own driver, all very affordable. For reasonable costs you can be living in your own place, meet friends in clubs and basically not be on the streets. Or on the other side you can get dressed locally, learn basics of language and blend in - person of any color or composure can be possibly from Pakistan. The second option is of course less safe, but safety is a very relative term, You can get mugged, which is rather common. The security threats resulting from terrorism are relevant only in areas like Peshawar and Quetta, main cities are hit very rarely (statistically, when taken into consideration that there is 186mio people, the attacks and casualties are not at all common). Women are generally safer than man as harming a foreign woman is a double crime (1. harming somebody, 2. harming a guest to the country, 3. harming a woman). Dont bring around too much cash and be ready to loose Your cellphone (if they ask, give it, no arguing).
2. You will get foodpoisoned. Fullstop. I have not met a single person from as many as 20 countries (except of India) who didnt have stomach problems after arriving to Pakistan. Ingrediences and ways of making are so different that the only way to prevent is to not eat any local food at all and live only from McDonalds and european restaurants, but even in this case its possible You catch a germ. The easiest is to get ready for it, get sick in the first two weeks, go to doctor and get some antibiotics prescribed and within a week You are ok. Only 10% do not finish with a visit of the doctor. Health care is cheap and easy to find, it works on strict cash basis - You pay and claim from insurance company later.
3. Pakistani food is amazing! Very spicy (which is something You have to get used to, as everything is spicy), but once You are over it, its one of the best kitchens in the world. Core is chicken meat and non-fermented bread. Do not expect pork, beef and fish are rather expensive. Its very hard to be vegetarian in Pakistan, chicken meat is omnipresent.
4. As for language, English is absolutely ok, but knowing basics of Urdu helps in price negotiation and also with work with locals (its good to know what they talk about).
5. Pakistanis are motivated by prestige and money. They try to be best, thus if the whole team is weak, nobody will excel - being best is good enough, if it doesnt require too much work - even better. Dont get too friendly - they will feel that You are friends and thus take Your words not that seriously. But also dont be a dictator, if You try to be completely impersonal, the locals will keep their distance, not trust You and will do no work except of what You order them to do.
6. Family and prestige (mostly in front of family) is the highest value. The jobs with the biggest companies and fanciest names are the best, even if the wage is not that high. Invitations for family dinners, weddings or celebrations are common and normal and are part of the culture. People who know You for few minutes might invite You home, its more than just polite gesture, its actually an invitation. If You politely refuse, they wont feel offended. Presence of a foreigner on any family event increases the prestige of the host and event. Loosing prestige is the highest loss.
7. Alcohol is omnipresent but invisible. Most of young people have experience with alcohol, despite it being officially forbidden to Muslims and available only for foreigners and Christians. Local, cheap (very bad tasting) alcohol and foreign, imported, expensive alcohol are available. A combination of cheap and good is not possible. Alcohol is not drunk publicly, only at home and in private circles. A pakistani drinks to get wasted, as there are no places to go while drunk, the fun ends with the bottom of the bottle.
8. Nature of relationships are different between cities and villages. Arranged marriages and virginity before marriage is very common. Public presentation of any other relationship between a man and woman than husband-wife, father-daughter and brother-sister is a taboo. Its OK for a foreign girl to have a Pakistani boyfriend, mostly the male part of the nation will consider it a good thing. They dont expect the boy to get married to a foreigner, but they will accept it most probably. A pakistani girl to have a foreign boyfriend is not that good. Its not considered a good thing by anybody, the family (if not very modern and from big cities) will frown on and badly judge the girl. If a Pakistani girl dates a boy, family must agree, or else the family ties might get severed and marriage is always seen as a clear next step.
9. The local currency is the only one used, shops dont accept any other. Exchange offices and ATMs with Visa/Mastercard are rather common and its always possible to get cash. Very few shops have POS terminals. Travelers cheques are exchangable but USD, EUR, CAD or any other major currency is easier to exchange.
10. Foreigners are still very rare and Pakistanis are very hospitable. Simple walking the street can bring you lots of people trying to start conversations. In Pakistan is OK to stare... If somebody is staring at You and You try to stare back the person will not feel awkward, s/he will actually feel encouraged to come and talk to You. If You are a man, do NOT stare at women, its an art that only Pakistanis can perfect (both sides look at each other, but it looks like they dont even notice their presence).
11. Its ok to be Christian, they have no animosity against them. But Pakistanis do not understand a situation when You dont have a religion, saying You dont believe in any God will create a big gap between You and locals. The religion is very alive and is the core of behavior.
12. It is not common to see women wearing headscarfs on the street (at least in towns), in villages they use loose scarfs that cover the head only partly or they go straight for Burkas (whole body cover). Local dress - a loose shirt till knees and baggy pants - is the standard for dressing of all classes, while business men wear suits, business women wear fancy versions of this dress. In middle and lower class everybody wears the local dress.
...more info on page that I wrote on life of foreigners in Pakistan (for purpose of AIESEC Exchange program) www.aiesec.pk/experience
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