802mark
From: Panama
12/15/2011 02:37 EST
wow folks what a day I had today..... I found out after calling a friend last week that grew up in my home state,, that he got shot and killed down here about two months ago... I was heart broke... then as some of you know and some don't I play poker of tue.. well it seems my wife of 6 years that gave me two wonderful girls was playing hide some one else's manhood while I was gone.... so that's wife number two for me.... I am sorry to even post this but my heart is ripped and I don't know what to do right now.
down here it isn't a bif deal on the legal side, 400 per month for two kids and that's it.. so no biggie with 200 women wanting to move in, I just don't understand it. really.. sorry folks I am just drunk and well and is about all I can say..
I never understood women. when I played in a band for 10 years they jump you.. never cared for any of them,, when I did it doesn't last.... I think I'll grow my hair long again, and treat them all like sh&& AND they will love me... anyway thanks for reading love you all..
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dizzylizzy
12/15/2011 06:17 EST
Hey Mark,
Sorry to hear your news..
Take some time out in January come and listen to the Jazz in PC. There will be a little group of newbies on 16th.. !
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SILVEREAGLE
12/15/2011 08:15 EST
MARK,
Your day realy suckes,both your friend and wife ! As far as the wife goes,many of us have been there.A little whiskey, time & friends helps. As far as the latter,you have many here.
My best to you my friend.
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KeninTX
12/15/2011 09:59 EST
Marc, We are so sorry to hear that. But based on what you have written to us all, over and over, you're a survivor and will end up on top again. I have to say she seems an idiot to give up such a great guy.
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ihatescams
12/15/2011 11:08 EST
Don't keep yourself isolated. You don't want to let it fester. You had no control over those circumstances, so do not beat yourself up. It does not make you a bad person.
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Marciphoto
12/15/2011 11:29 EST
I'm sorry for you - broken hearts really suck. But it sounds like Karma has come around to get you for the way you used to treat women. Karma will get you every time. Maybe it's time to change YOUR ways!
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802mark
From: Panama
12/15/2011 13:52 EST
Thank you all for the love, we have sat down and talked it out and agreed to work it out. I understand a lot of it is my fault, being gone to much and of course I've not been a angel myself.
our kids are my main point. so that's about it.. anyway didn't mean to use this site for my problems just had to vent or go nuts. thanks again.
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bluewind
12/16/2011 20:20 EST
Mark, I'm really very sorry to hear about what you're going through. The pain must be beyond words.
I know you've lived in El Valle a long time and have made many friends in Panama. I hope you have a chance to surround yourself with them. I'm sure they will give you all the support you need, and, of course, you've touched many lives on this website and made friends from your willingness to take the time and help them. I'm sure they will be there for you too. Please keep us updated on how you are doing.
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Tizzy
12/27/2011 11:30 EST
I'm bummed for you Mark...that kind of stuff is enough to put your ass around the bend...I've been in the same situation with a man who couldn't keep his pants up...and it hurts like hell. Hang in there... but don't take any s&^t either!
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mrimaggie
12/27/2011 11:36 EST
Sorry to hear of your troubles. Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. (my husband did the same after 20 years) hang in there.
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panamaexpat
1/4/2012 11:04 EST
Good morning Mark, sorry but just catching up on the forum, did not know how bad you had it there for several days. Just reading your wealth of knowledge on most anything we talk about here makes me feel for you. I hope it works out for you and your wife. I am sure you heard this before but everything happens for a reason, and as they say things have to get real bad before they turn out for a better good, and hopefully that will be your case, as your two girls are your main focus.
I am still in USA, going back end of Jan. and my husband goes back end of March, have talked to him about all the new friends in the forum and he can't wait to make your acquaintance. Please hang in there. New year, new life... God is good.
Cheers!
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