missmarya
10/21/2016 14:52 EST
OldPro, Thank you for the candid response. It's true that I am moving there 2 years ahead of schedule because I met him (about 1 year ago). My original plan in 2014 was to finish my MLS degree here in the states and THEN apply to jobs in Glasgow. I had visited in 2013 and Glasgow just fit - I knew I wanted to live there and an MLS is my ticket there. But, I met him and now my plans have moved up about 2 years. Basically, instead of getting my MLS online while living in the states I will be obtaining it online while living in the UK . . . . or, that's the goal anyways.
He is currently trying to obtain his passport and license (as his was stolen while climbing with friends earlier this year) but because he was a rather rambunctious youth (meaning, he has been arrested) the odds of him getting in the U.S. are almost nil. His interactions with the law happened over 15 years ago but he's still going to try, The odds are not in his favor, though. This means he can't even come over here to visit, let alone live, and is the primary reason I am trying to get over there.
I have been encouraged by some people to "just get married" but (1) I don't want a green card marriage, (2) I want, nay NEED, to maintain my independence so I need to ensure a job (without one I will not go over there), and (3) as you stated earlier, there are still hurdles to overcome, especially since you have to live together for 5-10 years now and not 2 years (it was 2 years if you applied for the VISA before summer 2012).
Again, thank you for your honest response. I am known for making things harder than they are supposed to be so I thought I would ask around to make sure this isn't supposed to be easy! =) I guess I will just keep doing what I'm doing.
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