In 2004, we bought a town home in New Bern, NC solely because my sister had a job there - it was to be our main base as family, and it evolved as that since my mother came down from Pittsburgh, and eventually my sister moved in from her rented accommodation.
My mom has since died, and my sister informed me as soon as I return to the states, she'll move out, marry her fiance, and live in his home.
Imagined she'd always be there to 'show me the ropes' as I know nothing about America's healthcare system or even offer a helpful suggestion we ALL live in my condo.
I'm older, tired, and everything seems way too much to contemplate. Blood, in this case, isn't thicker than water.
I don't think we're on the 'right page' or am I being selfish?
