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Expat Advice: Culture Shock in Punta del Diablo, Uruguay

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Punta del Diablo

Did you receive any cross-cultural training for your move abroad? If yes, was it before or after the move?

Before making the move, I read extensively on Uruguay. We had farm animals to sell, as well as equipment & furniture, cars, boats... We had little choice, as we were in an area contaminated by the BP "adventure" in the Gulf of Mexico, our home being 23 miles from the water.

Our animals & farm were contaminated and, having lived near 1/2 my life outside the US, I knew I could do better elsewhere... Had lived/worked in the Yucatan, Venezuela, Peru, Ecuador, but never visited Uruguay before.

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If they speak another language in your new country, do you speak the language? If yes, did you learn the language before you moved or while abroad? If no, are you planning to learn the language?

I was brought up bilingual in Texas, but there is a bit of new learning ongoing as I transfer my Tex-Mex & "regular" Spanish into pure Castillano - of Castile, Spain.

In some strange way, it's as if my grandparents are enjoying watching me struggle with the purity & beauty of original Olde Worlde Spanish, after my having for year defied their "prissy" English.

Living in the Texas Panhandle & North Texas, one becomes accustomed to spaking the vernacular... Spanglish. Well, it did not serve me here. Thank God for my landlord's mother, a freshly-retired medical doctor, who has become my teacher of "proper" speech in society.

For everyone else, it's like talking to a 6-year old child... Both were professors, one taught English & Lit., the other science & math. Both are laughing at me now.

Were you worried or concerned about culture shock before you moved abroad?

For myself not really. I have lived & worked in Mexico, Guatamala, Colombia, Venezuela, Peru, Bolivia, Australia, Thailand, Laos, Cambodia & Australia, as well as Bali. Being abroad is like a normal state of things for me. However, I had never been as far South since Tasmania, but at least I knew how to pack.

Comfort food, instant stuff in packets nobody cares about, spices, bedding, cooking pots & utensils (favorite herb grinders, etd.), coffee press is MANDATORY. My grandmother's knives, over 100 years old, go with me around the globe...

I was comforted by the fact that I had lived & thrived in Mexico, etc. and excited that Uruguay offered even less corruption (the least in South America) in my experience.

How significant was the culture shock you experienced when you moved abroad?

We flew with 7 suitcases, that is all. Coffee press, wok, cast iron skillet (we're from South Alabama, after all), a few packets of Low Country Boil & Extra Spicy Slap Ya Mama Shrimp & Crawfish boil, my herbs...

We were stunned how many Uruguayans would say they like food spicy but be unable to eat our "Texas Caviar," jalapenos cleaned of seed & membrane, filled with cream cheese & wrapped with bacon & grilled... WAAAYY too hot for them, it seems... But then, we're from Texas. We brought Tabasco. 'Nuff said.

Difficulty of opening a bank account was another shock. We had to have a utility bill in our own names... We were renting a lovely little bungalow from a fantastic landlord, but all were on the same bill & we just didn't want to put him out to segregate our house from the lot.

Even better, if you don't speak a certain amount of Spanish, you're lost. Come down during low season - winter - cold & damp - is the best time to buy property or cars or anything else. They take you more seriously.l Nobody speaks English. Prepare yourself. Buy Rosetta Stone if you must, but be aware = it teaches Mexican Spanish, not Uruguayan Spanish... But why am I cheating you of a few laughs?

The people here will bend over backward to help you get along, give you recommendations for laundry service, firewood vendors, whatever you want. The key is to keep your heart open to the people.

Strike up conversations in fledgling Spanish whenever you can - at the bus stop or market. Word of mouth is how you will find houses to rent, year-round or during the season, cars for sale or rent, the best deals on firewood, etc. TALK to the locals.

You will find they have HUGE hearts, the least amount of corruption in government in the Western Hemisphere, (US included in that) & a climate almost identical to Alabama, without the Live Oaks & Spanish Moss... (We suffer & enjoy Red Eucalyptus with calla lilies & palm trees.)

Expats often talk about going through the "stages of culture shock." Examples include the honeymoon phase, the irritation-to-anger stage, the rejection of the culture stage, and the cultural adjustment phase. Do you feel like you went through these or any other stages as you settled into the new culture?

We, or rather, my beloved, is in that stage now. He misses home, misses the "real meaning" of "tomorrow," etc. He's slowly learning to relax & go with the flow. Slowly, he is learning that there are no true emergencies, unless one is out of Pilsen or good tannat vino...

We do feel limited because we were spoiled to satellite internet & now WiFi signal is intermittent at best, but we make do...

Biggest issue is that instead of having a washing machine or coin-op washateria in town, I find myself doing laundry in a pail with warm water from the shower, brought to soak, then go into the kitchen sink, then rinse a couple times, then out to the line after a wringing... For a person with fibromyalgia, this is no small feat... Yet what does not kill me makes me stronger... There is a lavandera in town, but the clothes come back smelling of soap & not clean, so I prefer to do them myself like on the Navajo reservation when I was a child...

What, if any, were some of the changes you noticed in yourself that might have been caused by culture shock? These might include things such as anger, depression, anxiety, increased eating or drinking, frustration, homesickness, etc.

We are thrilled with the intense taste sensation of the pears, tangerines, grapefruits & seafood... Beef here is especially good. They allow the animals to mature properly, without antibiotics or hormone injections, totally fed on rich grass. The result is incomparable. Imagine the richest prime rib you've ever had - then triple the flavor... You get the idea..

Yes, we are drinking a bit more - red wine - tannat grapes. They Uruguayos are so smart they refuse to export this lovely wine. We probably consume about a gallon per week, between ourselves & visitors... It's winter now & it helps to warm the blood... Dom Perico in Chuy (border of Uruguay & Brazil) has the best tannat - Sol Chico.

We also eat more dark chocolate - wonderful stuff, at a few pennies on the dollar one would pay in the US.

My partner is having a bit of homesickness... He has 3 kids under age 30. I have a 19-year old son in college. But - they are all adults & we are available on Skype & Email... We can go to Chuy & make international phone calls, no sweat.

Fishing makes everything better. Also, we eat fresh mussels & sea snails a couple nights a week; comfort food always helps.

We are watching the blooms of the aloe vera here - horse tails they call them... When they become really RED, it's time for the whales to be visiting here during migration to feast on the Antarctic krill... They come right up near the beaches, belly up to nurse their young until they need to breach & breathe... I can't wait to be privileged to that sight & take pictures...

What are some things you appreciate most about the new culture?

The lack of the fedral gummint's nose in my business. The fact that people here are more laid back & easygoing in their approach to life.

The fact that there are no "old folks' homes" here. Old folks stay with the family until they die - they don't get farmed out for someone else to take care of because the family can't be bothered...

What are the most challenging aspects of the new culture?

Because of 3 previous head injuries, I struggle with remembering precise wording & phrasing of Spanish, especially now when faced with formal Castillano...

But people are so patient & understanding, even if you arrive speaking Mexican Spanish, they still understand you, as most of their TV is in Mexican Spanish...

Did you "commit" any embarrassing or humorous cultural blunders? If you did and you'd like to share them, please do tell!

Not here in Uruguay, but many in Thailand I would rather forget... Because I had a migraine, my son went to a friend's restaurant alone & met an "undisclosed ladyboy." We ended up cutting our visit short as a result...

Do you have any advice or thoughts about culture shock you would like to share?

Be open to the people of Uruguay. Trust in the natural goodness of humankind here. Nobody is out to fleece you. Visit the provinces & learn about the country people, not just the city of Montevideo & cities.

Learn passable Spanish before you go. Be able to understand what people are saying to you.

Realize this is not a cheap place to live. Prices are similar to the United States; however, there is much more freedom to be found here.

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guest
Jul 6, 2011 01:51

Hi, I live in Punta del Diablo as well - just curious, what was it that drew you to the area?

guest
Jul 7, 2011 12:10

Cool article - thanx... I am moving to South America in a few months & am researching as to the 'where' to begin the search & Uruguay is towards the top of the list. My wife lives in Peru, full-on Amazonia, so that makes life easier when in different SA cultures. I have heard that it can be 'cheap' to live there & also that it can be comparitively expensive (I will have a very fixed income). Why the discrepancy & are some areas that are more affordable than others??? Any input would be greatly appreciated...

guest
Sep 1, 2011 06:09

Guest #2 - Uruguay is not a CHEAP place to live, people! It is only a BETTER place to live. In Montevideo, once you own a home, you can live easily on about $600/mo for two people. Food is excellent quality & bountiful. I also have a fixed income Soc. Sec. Disability of less than $1200/mo. The key is to get your home bought & paid for, then you can relax & enjoy life. You won't need a car if located in the city (any city) because of the excellent bus system nationwide... The BEST, most regular, CLEANEST buses I have ever ridden... Cars are expensive, as is petrol/gasoline... We pay about $8/gallon for gas for our 1968 VW Beetle, which we bought for $3500. Basically, it costs us the same $10 each time we make a round-trip ride to Chuy, the bordertown with Brazil, BUT - it's at our convenience, with no rushing about to be ready to catch the bus back... :D And we don't have to lug our groceries on & off the bus, which is difficult if you drink as much wine/beer as we do... ;p Internet is extremely good, extremely reliable... Unless, like ME, you have a cheap, refurbished laptop from Dell which has a weak WiFi antenna. WiFi is furnished FREE in all town squares, even the small towns. Guest #1 - Why was I drawn to PDD? Well, absence of Americans, for one... I got fed up with flaccid people who don't stand up for their rights against their own government which is actively trying to poison/depopulate them... Also, the clean sea air removed the cough we had both suffered for over a year (night & day without rest). We just looked up on the 3rd day here & noticed we were no longer hacking our poisoned lungs up. The people we have met are the reason we want to stay... We cannot afford to buy in Punta del Diablo, but the quality of the people cannot be beat on this planet. Also, having the sea close at hand is wonderful. A welcome change for Gulf people used to living by the sea... and so unspoiled, so unpolluted... I hope the residents here will band together to ensure that the port and mine are NOT allowed in. This would put an end to the incredible beauty & spirituality of PDD, not to mention the risk of contamination by the mining... Which would affect the whales & sea life for sure. I was so privileged to see a group of local kids out surfing about a week ago... Lovely sunny day... I was on the boardwalk with friends & watched in amazement when a pod of black dolphins came thru, stopped to play a bit with the kids (and their dog), then moved on off to Rivera beach to do some fishing & fill their bellies... Please, don't tell too many Americans about Punta del Diablo. As miserable as things are up north, we would soon be overrun & that would be as much a disaster as the mine or the port... Guest #2 - I suspect the variance in reports of cost of living have to do with whether or not you pay rent or own your home. If you own, then cost of living is very low. If you rent, then you must figure that in with the monthly budget... We are looking for a small chacra where we can have our milk goats again & develop a small dairy & cheese-making business... It won't be in Punta del Diablo, but it WILL be in Uruguay, probably on the frontier with Brazil. I deliberately have NOT posted fotos for this report, as I worry the area might be overwhelmed & do not want to destroy quality of life for those who live here year-round. It's a respect kind of thing. Tourism is great - it supports many of the residents; however, massive tourism would ruin the vibe... Guest #1 - what area do you live in? Have we perhaps met? I'm the crazy old chubby Native American lady looking for a chacra nearby... Don't hesitate to introduce yourself. We are staying at the moment in the rear white bungalow of Joya del Arcadio - on Calle Rocha... Please come by & introduce yourself. We're home if you see the plum-colored Volkswagon Beetle... :D Happy to share a mate or a glass of wine & asado... :D

guest
Sep 1, 2011 19:17

todo verdad !!! marcos de uruguay , rocha

guest
Feb 20, 2013 17:27

Hey, Thanx for all your sharing, have been following, & yet don't have a name to put to the posts? - I'm beginning to feel better 'n better about investigating Uruguay as a potential alternative to winters in Colorado, & w/any luck, permanent residence, once our high-mesa horse property sells - we're part of 1500 acre horse ranch here. I'm a DC from Telluride, & have a good [Acupuncturist] friend who lives ~ 25 k outside PDE who's wooing me down there, b/c he says no one practices full body/mind/spirit approach like he & I do, & it'd be fun to work 2gether, again - I'm also a fledgling surfer & have heard there may be some decent small [safe] swells there w/o nasty coral, certain times of year, & am working on planning a visit there this April - how far is PDD from PDE, & is there a mellow surfing experience nearby? Having lived the 'high lonesome' lifestyle for the past 24 yrs, I don't think in-city dwelling would work for me again. Once more, Tex, thanx for posting all that y'all have - &, can we get a name? Peaceful, healing thoughts, jm

guest
Nov 2, 2014 11:56

I realize each airline is different, but for your case, what was the cost per extra suitcase that you paid and what was the weight limit? Were seven the maximum allowed or could you have brought 10 or 12, etc. if you were willing to pay?

edykizaki
Nov 8, 2014 09:22

I used American Airlines and they have a webpage that tells what the overweight limits are and what the charges are. I brought a dog crate and 4 suitcases, three overweight... the lady targeting the most overweight and told me it needed to be lightened, so I pulled out some things and handed them to my "ride" to take home and bring later (which he didn't unfortunately) then charged me for it and let the other two go. Steve came later and brought 4 and he got charged overweight for all of them. The total limit was five, and there was one free, and then a separate charge for each additional luggage and each time one was overweight. I ended up paying about $500 over including the dog which is a $120 charge, but thought it was cheaper than trying to ship the stuff and potentially paying tax too... they did not check my luggage incoming, perhaps too much fuss over the dog... I remember when I was traveling with young children they never checked by luggage either...

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