Expat Advice: Culture Shock in
Dammam, Saudi Arabia
What is the name of the city or town that you are reporting on?
Did you receive any cross-cultural training for your move abroad? If yes, was it before or after the move?
Yes, before I have lived and worked all over the US and Korea while traveling to Japan, Viet Nam, Thailand and now I live in The Philippines.
If they speak another language in your new country, do you speak the language? If yes, did you learn the language before you moved or while abroad? If no, are you planning to learn the language?
Were you worried or concerned about culture shock before you moved abroad?
a little bit
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How significant was the culture shock you experienced when you moved abroad?
Expats often talk about going through the "stages of culture shock." Examples include the honeymoon phase, the irritation-to-anger stage, the rejection of the culture stage, and the cultural adjustment phase. Do you feel like you went through these or any other stages as you settled into the new culture?
The "honeymoon stage" never happened since I was first taken direct from Bahrain to a desert outpost on the border with Kuwait. Everyone in the town either worked for the oil company or in some support business.
It was very odd to see ZERO women of any kind and when I would visit another town to shop, to find I was not even allowed to ask where something was to be found in a market.
It was very irritating to go shopping & the stores suddenly close for prayer several
times a day. It is no wonder nothing gets done there.
What, if any, were some of the changes you noticed in yourself that might have been caused by culture shock? These might include things such as anger, depression, anxiety, increased eating or drinking, frustration, homesickness, etc.
I found the men to be extremely lazy and thin skinned which tended to raise my anxiety level.
I come from a place where hard work is valued, not frowned upon and found it very frustrating to be always "negotiating" more time off with the students. On one hand I was required to teach and on the other hand, not to push the students too hard because they would report my efforts at maintaining classroom decorum as being "culturally insensitive."
What are some things you appreciate most about the new culture?
What are the most challenging aspects of the new culture?
Abnormal (lack of) male/female interaction that led to a huge number of homosexual advances being made by the obviously sexually frustrated men.
Did you "commit" any embarrassing or humorous cultural blunders? If you did and you'd like to share them, please do tell!
Yes, my first day there I urinated in the
urinal only to find that was where men sat to wash their feet.
Do you have any advice or thoughts about culture shock you would like to share?
Don't go to that terrible place ever. Even the food is bad. They eat sheep and everything is slathered with curry powder. Saudi also has the highest highway death rates in the world.
More about Saudi Arabia
Expats who want to move to the Saudi Arabia should fully explore what it means to move and live there. Read a lot of comments from people who live in Saudi Arabia, and have for a number of years.
Expats who want to move to the Saudi Arabia should fully explore what it means to move and live there. Read a lot of comments from people who live in Saudi Arabia, and have for a number of years....
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I'm not sure this is a real report.
I was reading this assuming you were very unlucky to encounter every single negative aspect of Saudi society and gain NOTHING positive about the experience(I suppose it could happen)- that was until I read that you pissed in an area made for cleansing the body of impurities in preparation for prayer.
I'm not even muslim and thats extremely offensive, I would of expected you got a flogging for that to be quite honest, if it were true. Especially if you were in the more conservative Riyadh area.
You also seem to answer some of the questions in this report with very little effort, which further gives credence to my idea that this is a false report. Submitted for reasons that are to be honest, beyond my comprehension.
PS: You do sound quite 'culturally insensitive', to be frank. Negative generalizations; of which there are a few in your 'report', are rarely useful and only serve to discredit your intelligence. I woul advise anyone who comes across this report to take with a rather large bag of salt.
Actually, this report is probably real. I've met some Westerners here who are extremely bitter about Saudia and have nothing good to say. Some of these people pull 'runners' (leave for a scheduled vacation and don't return) when they're at the breaking point but others remain for financial reasons, which makes them even more bitter and angry. My advice is to try to stay away from these people--they're toxic.