10 Things to Know Before Moving to Brunei
Summary: If you're planning a move to Brunei, here are 10 things expats living there wish they had known before moving to Brunei.
Considering a move to Brunei? This small, intriguing nation on the island of Borneo is a unique blend of ancient customs and modern conveniences. Before you pack your bags, here are ten essential things to know to help you navigate the sultanate like a pro.
1. Brunei is a Blend of Old and New
Brunei is a place where ancient traditions coexist with modern infrastructure. You'll find gleaming mosques alongside sprawling shopping malls, and traditional water villages near modern housing complexes. The capital, Bandar Seri Begawan, is a mix of colonial buildings, modern architecture, and historic sites like the Sultan Omar Ali Saifuddin Mosque.
2. Understanding Local Laws is Crucial
Brunei implements Sharia law alongside common law, and it's essential to familiarize yourself with the local legal system. For instance, alcohol consumption and public displays of affection are prohibited. The laws are strict, and penalties can be severe, including fines, imprisonment, and corporal punishment. Respecting these rules is crucial for a harmonious stay.
3. Embrace the Slow Pace of Life
Life in Brunei moves at a slower pace compared to many Western countries. Locals value leisure time and community, with businesses often closing for prayers and families gathering for meals. Expect shops and offices to open later in the morning and close earlier in the evening. This relaxed atmosphere can be a refreshing change, encouraging you to enjoy the little moments.
4. Explore the Rich Cultural Scene
Brunei's cultural scene is vibrant and diverse, influenced by Malay, Chinese, and indigenous traditions. Don't miss the annual Brunei Darussalam International Kite Festival or the lively Ramadan bazaars. The Arts and Handicrafts Centre in the capital is a great place to learn about traditional crafts and maybe even pick up a new skill.
5. Nature Lovers Will Be Spoiled
Brunei is a nature lover's paradise. The Ulu Temburong National Park offers jungle treks and canopy walks, while the pristine beaches of Tutong are perfect for relaxation. Divers will appreciate the rich marine life around the many shipwrecks off the coast. Weekend trips to these natural wonders are a must.
6. Food is a Delicious Blend of Cultures
Bruneian cuisine reflects the country's multicultural heritage. Try Ambuyat, a sago starch dish, or Nasi Katok, a popular rice and chicken meal. The Gadong Night Market is a foodie's heaven, offering a wide range of local delicacies. Be sure to sample the famous Bruneian roti, a flaky flatbread often served with curry.
7. English is Widely Spoken
While Malay is the official language, English is widely spoken, especially in urban areas and among the younger generation. This can make communication easier for expats, but learning a few phrases in Malay will go a long way in building relationships and showing respect for the local culture.
8. Respect Local Customs and Etiquette
Brunei is a conservative society with strong traditions. Greetings are important; a handshake is common, but be aware that some Muslims may prefer not to shake hands with the opposite sex. Always remove your shoes before entering a home, and dress modestly in public. These small gestures show respect and help build connections.
9. and Education are High Quality
Brunei offers high-quality healthcare and education systems. Public healthcare is affordable, and there are several private clinics and hospitals. provide excellent education, following various curricula like British, American, and International Baccalaureate. Researching these options will help you make informed decisions for your family.
10. Building a Social Network Takes Time
Brunei's expat community is diverse and welcoming, but it may take time to build a social network. Joining clubs, attending events, and participating in local activities can help you meet like-minded people. Locals are friendly and often eager to share their culture, so don't hesitate to engage in conversations and accept invitations.
Moving to Brunei can be an enriching experience filled with cultural insights, natural wonders, and new friendships. With these tips in mind, you'll be well-prepared to embrace all that this fascinating country has to offer.
About the Author
Joshua Wood, LPC joined Expat Exchange in 2000 and serves as one of its Co-Presidents. He is also one of the Founders of Digital Nomad Exchange. Prior to Expat Exchange, Joshua worked for NBC Cable (MSNBC and CNBC
Primetime). Joshua has a BA from Syracuse and a Master's in Clinical and Counseling Psychology from Fairleigh Dickinson University. Mr. Wood is also a licensed counselor and psychotherapist.
Some of Joshua's articles include Pros and Cons of Living in Portugal, 10 Best Places to Live in Ireland and Pros and Cons of Living in Uruguay. Connect with Joshua on LinkedIn.


