I am a 70-year-old black retired military veteran. I am also retired from the government and a disabled veteran, also drawing social security. My total monthly income is $8,500.00 US dollars. I am a widower who has spent time in the US, Vietnam, Philippines, Japan, Korea, Okinawa, and Taiwan. I now am looking to spend my remaining years in the Philippines with a sweet, beautiful, educated and you (25-50 year-old) lady. I am looking at either Cebu or Makati. I want someone I can trust and enjoy. I will do the same for her. Marriage is optional. I have been read your site for a long time as well as others. Is this possible without being taken advantage of?