Philippines Forum

nonievales
Joined 2012
Posts: 111

9 years ago

Just A Commentary

9 years ago

When I joined this forum the atmosphere was one of sharing information without judging the contributor. Now, there seem to be some who think they are the judge, jury and executioner. I think if the situation were reversed and the Filipinos acted as if they owned the country they migrated to, it would take these same people no time to say 'get the hell out of my country'. There are a lot of things I, myself, do not like about the Philippines, about people's habits, customs and traditions even though I was born here, but I temper myself most of the time. There was a time when I was sympathetic about the plight of those who came here, not having the resources to survive in their own country by planning on creating an affordable community for expats only, that could provide not only security but amenities westerners are used to having in their homes. I am not saying I have the capacity to make this happen on my own, but I know enough people who can. However, all that is no more, as I observed animosity and bickering amongst expats abound even here on this forum. As a Filipino-American who straddles the social and cultural divide, my thanks to all who try to understand and adapt. But, to those who would judge me or someone like me, because of where I was born, maybe it's time for you to say 'goodbye'. Btw, I do expect a barrage of hostile comments.

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